February 15, 2009.
Ah shucks - my home is on parade.....sort of. I woke up to this wonderful post yesterday morning on Lookiloos. I can hardly read the glowing embarrassing article Sheila wrote, I sound like Martha Stewart on crack. Well maybe not that crazy, but I do wonder what I was thinking when I started my business, right after remodeling our entire home ourselves.
After reading the post I started thinking about all the good things about owning your own business and why I really did love to be my own boss:
Top Ten Reasons I love being an Entrepreneur
1. Always Something to Talk About- not that we don't all always have something to gibber jabber about, I know we do. I always can join in on most nonsense talk at a party, my husband's work event, sitting with the Mom's at school. As an entrepreneur I can pretty much walk the walk and talk the talk with anyone. I get what is like to stay at home, I get the business talk, I get the sales stress, the Economy...oy vey! And sometimes I even blurt out things to shut some idiot up;
Idiot,"So as I was saying I have my own business, I am very successful and I live in Atherton*...do you know where Atherton is? I own a home there...."
Me, "Ya, I know where it is. So my tiles were on the Ellen DeGeneres show last year....do you know who E-L-L-E-N is?"
Was I childish? Yes. Was it funny? Yes. Did I shut him up? YES!
*Just in case you do not know where Atherton is, it is one of the most expensive places to live in the United States. It is just about 15 minutes down the freeway from me, EVERYONE knows where it is.
2. Never A Dull Moment - If you have been reading this blog, or own your own business, this is a big fat - duh! I swear the word bored or expression,' I have nothing to do', has probably not passed over my lips since I started Jamie's Painting & Design (or had kids for that matter). I have a to-do list that never gets thrown out, I just keep adding things, ideas, inspirations....more blog posts! It is a never ending list of continuing to improve, take down, re-do or change. I guess the day I sit back and say I am done, I have nothing more to do - will be the day I quit.
3. I Am in Charge, Because I said So - This is a double-edges sword for sure. The line from History of the World Part II, when Mel Brookssays, "It's good to be king." always pops in my head. I enjoy most of the perks and the total control that comes from being in charge. Yes, not everything is funky-dory, but most of the time it is great. If you don't like being in charge - don't start a company. I like it, I do.
4. Business School 101 Forever- I will never, never ever know all there is to know about
running my own business. It will always be a learning experience. If I have figured out one aspect I have to teach myself something else to succeed. The learning curve is steep and I am lucky to have smart people around me to help me out. Sometimes though I just have to figure it out. I have no IT department, no HR department, no I do not. If there is a problem, I need to fix it....and usually fast.
5. Watch Mommy Work - Whether my children follow in my footsteps, join the company or not, I know they have learned quite a bit. They have watched my business grown, seen it stumble and probably learned a few bad words. The best part is that they saw how I (with the help of my husband and family) started something from nothing and created a thriving business. Sometimes I need to take a step back and acknowledge what we do is sort of cool....well at least my kids still think it is. They can see that I can follow my dreams and still be a Mom to them.
6. Freedom Baby! - Even with the long hours, the weekends, the stress and the back breaking work I can take off when I want. For six long years no one has told me how to dress (yes I wear slippers some days) or when to get to work, or whether or not I can take the day off. I love the freedom! Not to say the blackberry does not totally help (it does) but I am able to make my own hours, go out of town, leave work early, volunteer in my children's classroom.....and it is fabulous!
7. Friends, Partners & Mompreneurs Oh My!- If I had not started my own business I would not be so blessed to call so many different women my friends. Women I have never met in person, some I have spoken to on the phone, others I email on a regular basis and some we only speak through twitter. I find some of these women are so supportive and so fabulous that I don't know how I would ever have succeeded without them. Really a great testament to what a great community of people you can meet on line. My virtual support system is by far the biggest shock to me - I never imagined I could meet so many of you that say, "Yep, I get that."
8. Never say, "What Might Have Been."- I never have to utter those words, I took the plunge I tried, I am trying I am doing what I want. Selfish? No - totally stubborn and an unnerving ability to do what I set out to do. I refuse to take no for an answer. I do not like to not try. No one is putting this 'baby' in the corner - I will do what I set out to do. I had two small children, no seed money, no partner, no experience - these things did not stop me. I do not know how I did it (or others either) but I did it. No matter what happens to JPD in the future, I will know I tried and I did what I set out to do.
9. What if you did....? - This is one of the most exciting things about running a business - the possibility of the unknown. The question I ask myself, or others might ask with a new idea, a new way of looking at things - just new. I can not imagine I would have this freedom if I was working for the man, or in an established huge company right now. I love that I can take my business in a , I can try out a new product line, I can experiment with new things. It is never boring I tell you.
10. It Makes Me Happy - I feel that running a business is very fulfilling and rewarding. I get to make beautiful things for people. I get wonderful thank you's, kudos, praise from customers and friends alike. It makes me feel good. I like that people like my work....and ya I am thinking the Sally Field speech in my head right about now, "You like me, you really, really like me!" At the end of the day, whether I made a dollar or not - I know that someone is thrilled with a product I made. I love that feeling.